Death to “In My Humble Opinion”

I think now is the time to lift our nation from the quicksand of racial injustice, IMHO. Just my $0.02. –@MartinLutherKing on Twitter

Why is it that we must tell everyone on the Internet that things are only our opinion?

Of course “I think” what I’m about to say. Why else would I be saying it? Of course it’s “in my opinion,” because I’m saying it. Anything said by anyone is, when you get down to it, inherently related to what they think, which is consequently their opinion. But now that they’ve been so kind as to emphasize that fact, it hurts their argument.

Here are two different statements a person can make:

A: I think that jumping off the George Washington Bridge can cause severe bodily harm. That could be fatal, in my opinion.

B: Nobody can get hurt from jumping off the George Washington Bridge. It’s actually very healthy and promotes long-life.

Now, assuming you didn’t know anything about the effects of jumping off a bridge, which of these two arguments would be more convincing to you? At first glance, without Wikipediing anything? Most of you will say statement B.

Adding language like, “I think” or “In my opinion” (or IMO or IMHO) to your arguments weakens them. You will sound less sure of yourself, or at the very least like you don’t care as much. This applies to actual speech as well as online discussion.

Some might argue that such disclaimers are common courtesy, but to the audience you’re addressing, they’re common sense. It’s not impolite to omit needless words, and doing so makes the remaining words stronger.

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3 Responses to “Death to “In My Humble Opinion””


  • I think it has to do with this idea that someone “owns” their journal. I've seen people get pissed off when people comment with something they disagree with, and have disclaimers saying “These are my thoughts, if you don't like them don't read them.” I think people who often use IMHO are those who are afraid that if they disagree with the person, there will be bad consequences like internet flame wars and things of that unsavory nature, imho.

    (I've never used “imho” before ever! I swear!)

  • Possibly, but it seems more like it's just a case of people not knowing how to communicate effectively. More of a Strunkian issue than Freudian.

  • Possibly, but it seems more like it's just a case of people not knowing how to communicate effectively. More of a Strunkian issue than Freudian.

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